I've seen a lot of people who really work hard i accomplishing certain projects. They really put their heart and soul to make sure the project runs smooth and successfully. I've known some people who didn't care how much money they spent and how tired they are just for the sake of the success of the project. I enjoy working with people like that.
However, after seeing the sacrifices of these beautiful people, one of their assistance head of the project blame them for not doing enough just because he or she is unable to attend one ceremony which makes them have to take over the duty and its turn out to be in a mess.
What do you feel when every time there is something need to be done you are left alone to think what to do and yet when it is well done your head get the thumbs up but if it is not up to the standard you are the one who will have to take the blame because you are the one who do it. Fair enough if your superior said that you didn't do great so they get the blame but have they ever think that they never help in the process?
I've seen this one person work and know how hard he/she tried. I've seen the amount of money pour out to make things possible and the amount of time spend to the project and yet his/her assistance head said that he/she didn't do enough to help them. The head didn't do anything or said anything to clear the air. He just sit there and listen. Fair enough if he don't want to side anybody but he have to comment. Don't just let someone's heart hurt.
What will you do if you really feel that you have work hard enough and sacrifice enough to help your group and yet they blame you of not doing enough? Not even a Thank you. When you help does not mean you want to be given an award. Enough if you say thanks and acknowledge what they have done. Why want to say "You have not done enough and we know you didn't tried you best". I don't blame the group member to back away and feel hurt for I can feel the hurt.
What say you?
7 comments:
well.. sometimes we have to accept those who rules..get the appreciation... but those who actually did the job.. remain silent... and those are the beautiful people.
yes I agree but the ruler also need to be gentle to the anak buah.. They should know how to appreciate them or they will loose them right?
Hmmm I see this situation all the time too Quirin... in many2 places... if it were up to me and if I dun have to think of the consequences, i'd come right up to the 'ruler', explain the real situation and say "Go suck a Lemon!" when he/she gives me an undeserved negative letdown. Then I'd proceed to never help when this person is also involve in any project! *grrrr* Mau kasi rasa la bah kunun... but this in my ideal world lar hehe...
Most of the times when this happen to me or to ppl near me, I see the usual reaction is just to shrug and let go. Keeping grudge is like keeping garbage in our life... just anggap those ppl 'who are opportunist & glory-seeker' are like garbage :)
ya in reall world those "tertindas" ppl will tend to just "biar lah". I really pity these ppl and can really feel the hurt.
Heran kan,cerita ko ni lebi kurang mcm c stip hehehe p ada beza sikit2 saja hahahaha
p bila sa baca utk kali ke 4 sa rasa pasal c steve pula ermmmm hehehe
hehehe luahan perasaan bah ni moi
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